When you feel like you have nothing left to give . . .

Like the poor widow, Jesus is more pleased when we give from our poverty than when we give from our abundance.

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Widow's MiteIn my position as superior of our community, there are many days when I feel like I don’t have anything to give my sisters–not that I don’t want to–I just feel very poor.  I also feel that way pretty much all the time in prayer these days.  I have always experienced great encouragement from the story of the widow’s mite.  Some words on this topic from Andre Louf, abbot emeritus of the Cistercian monastery of Mont-des-Cats, France:

Jesus was elated over the poor widow who offered two copper coins.  She gave from her poverty and in so doing offered up everything she had to live on (Mk 12:42-44).  The others had also given money, a lot of it even, but “from their surplus wealth” . . . Jesus, however, preferred the two miserable coins of the widow to these substantial gifts even though the coins were of no significance in the sum total of the collection.    Why did he rate this gift more highly?  Jesus’ answer was very simple: “She, from her poverty, put in everything she had, all she had to live on.”  Does this mean the others should have been more generous?  Should they have given larger sums?  Of course not.  They were naturally free to do this and a higher contribution would certainly have been appreciated.  But that was not what was important to Jesus; the issue was not so much one of quantity.  Even if the rich were to give more, they would still only be giving from their abundance.  For them it would always remain immensely difficult to give from their poverty.  It is the same for us: whatever we may give of all the things that belong to us–our money, our time, our magnanimity, our health, our thousand good qualities–even if we put all this at Jesus’ disposal, still we are only giving from our abundance.  And it will always remain hard and even painful for us to give from our poverty.  To give everything to Jesus always means to give from our poverty and that is not an easy thing to do.  But it is precisely this gift that Jesus expects from us all . . . To give from our poverty means, first of all, to know that we are poor, that we have discovered in ourselves the wound for which (for that matter) no one is responsible but which for ever makes us utterly poor indeed, poor to a degree we would not dare to admit to ourselves. . . [The widow] accepts the fact that she just wants to give what she has because Jesus looked at her and accepted her as she was.  Happy are they who dare to give from their poverty: in the eyes of Jesus they have given everything they had.   (from Mercy in Weakness)

2 thoughts on “When you feel like you have nothing left to give . . .

  1. June 11th, 2009

    Just when you think you have nothing left to give…nothing to say…

    A friend lost her 2nd oldest (a son) of seven children in a kayaking accident last Saturday.
    He graduated from college in May, was engaged to be married, and entering medical school in the fall. As a mother of five what can I say to this mother? My faith is so stretched. Their faith is overwhelming stretched by their grief. The question isn’t “Why?” but “Trust?”
    Romans 8:28 comes peacefully to my heart, “We know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who He has called according to His purpose.”
    It is about trusting Him when we find Hope hard to find.

    Just when you think you have nothing left to give…nothing to say…..
    A baby is born. John Anthony Lopez (a nephew) born today. A mother struggles in pain for 15 hours and then the baby is born in the midst of that struggle. Both mothers hope in life and in death for the love of Jesus to penetrate the souls of their sons. We know that somehow in the mystery of who God is that He has is all figured out and that all things will work together because He is God and we love Him. This is our constant Hope.
    Kathleen

  2. Let us unite our poverty to that of Jesus, who “for our sake became poor so that through His poverty we may become rich.”

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