A story about Berry

This was written by a friend of mine, Chris de Vinck.  (see “The Power of the Powerless”)  He’s a great storyteller and whatever he writes is worth reading.

What is Your Name?

What is your name, so that we may honor you when your word comes true? (Judges 13.17)

I heard a story about Berry.  I do not know why she was called Berry, but this is what I heard about her.  She was born in a trailer in South Dakota.  Her father was a locksmith, and her mother worked in the post office.

After a terrible fire in the trailer, both the father and the mother perished.  Berry sustained burns over eithgy percent of her body, was blinded for life, and become morose and unhappy.

Berry never married.  She attended school up to the tenth grade, then she was taken north by her aunt, who had a flower business in New York State.

Berry spent many days in the florist shop, answering phones and dictating orders on a tape recorder that her aunt played back whenever she was able to catch up on business.

The children int he neighborhood teased Berry by calling her names such as “Alligator Lady,” or “Goofy Eyes.”  At first these things hurt the young woman; then, one day, Berry just laughed and asked the children what their names were.

The local children soon became enchanted with this Miss Berry who laughed and knew the smell of every flower they brought her.  One boy, who was particularly shy, fetched Miss Berry’s mail each day and read it to her.

Miss Berry learned braille, wrote letters to the newspaper about the pollution she smelled while sitting out back where the maple tree grew.  And to the boy who brought the mail she began to read stories about pirates, airplanes, and secret spies who rescued people from terrible fates by hiding them in the mountains of Europe.

Miss Berry stayed with her aunt until the aunt died.  She attended college, received her degree in law, and became a public defender for abused children.

When Miss Berry died, she had no family.  A young man from the old neighborhood read int he papers that Miss Berry had died, so he went over and said that he would like to make a contribution.

Before she died, the only thing that Miss Berry didn’t tend to herself was a headstone, so the young man paid for the headstone.  When he was asked what he would like to have engraved on the stone, he thought for some time, then wrote a few words on a piece of paper and handed it to the stonecutter.

The stonecutter read the words and smiled: “I also knew her.  These words will suit her just fine: Miss Berry: She Loved All the Flowers and All the Children.”

When we human beings are confronted with something we do not understand, we become suspicious, just as the children were when they first met Miss Berry. We need to have answers.  We need to know.  And if we do not understand something, as the children didn’t at first understand Miss Berry, we become afraid, or we make jokes, or we push for answers.

During the time of Christ, people were puzzled about a man who was baptizing.  They wanted to know if he was Jesus.  John the Baptist confessed freely, “I am not the Christ.”
They asked him, “Then who are you?  Are you Elijah?”
He said, “I am not.”
“Are you the Prophet?”
He answered, “No.”
Finally they said, “Who are you?  Give us an answer to take back to those who sent us.  What do you say about yourself?”
John replied in the words of Isaiah the prophet, “I am the voice of one calling int he desert, ‘Make straight the way of the Lord'” 
(John 1.20-23).

One of the most significant things we can do is answer to God, “What do you say about yourself?”

I think Miss Berry would simply laugh and say, “Well, the children call me Alligator Woman; I became a lawyer; I like flowers; and there was a boy who read my mail to me each day for eight years.  I learned to read because of him.”

Who we are is connected to those we love and to those who have influenced us toward goodness.  John the Baptist loved Jesus and was influenced by His words.  John was never the same because of Jesus’ spiritual intervention.

The small boy who read to Miss Berry intervened in her spirit, and she was no longer the same person because of the child’s kindness.

We all have the potential to be the one who baptizes.  We all have the potential to be moved to action.  Today let us make straight the way of the Lord.

The best you can

9_4_Blessed MotherTeresa“Once a successful businessman went to work in one of Mother Teresa’s shelters for the poor in India.  His frustration at not finding the little woman there was overturned on the day before his departure when she returned.  He was moved to tears of joyous surprise when, on admitting that his whole life was self-concerned, instead of being like hers, she held his shoulders and looked deep into his eyes saying: ‘Know that God appreciates you are doing the best you can.'”

And He says the same to you today: “Know that God appreciates you are doing the best you can.”

Sun spots

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“There is nothing so perfect in the world as to be quite above objection and criticism.  The very sun which gives us light and warmth is not free from spots, yet notwithstanding these defects it does not desist from its regular duty.  It behoves us in like manner to carry on to the best of our ability what has been entrusted to us . . .” (Sundar Singh)

His goodness is never one whit diminished

In the matter of
God’s goodness
we have got to be
irrational.

This is the way it is,
with love, for instance,
and with any other
deep down, visceral persuasion.
We go beyond reason,
we do not trust
appearances.
All surface indications
to the contrary
we have got to believe that
God is good,
unfailingly good to us.
Even in the thick
of troubles,
in moments of dire tragedy,
calamity,
disaster,
God is being good.
This is illogical,
it is nonsense
but it is true.
His goodness
is never
one whit diminished,
obscured
or blunted.

Monsignor James Turro

Mary words

“For you it is who took me and led me out of strange ways and darknesses years ago.  You it is who takes me by the hand now day by day.  Only you would not grow tired of the like of me–of anyone so sinful, ungrateful, selfish . . . The thought of my sins smites me down so that if there were not you I think I would fall into despair.  And when I try to reason why you should continue to protect me I end in confusion.  I can only throw myself on your love.  I can only kneel and cry out: ‘I don’t deserve anything.  Not even the greeting of a stranger.  But, Mother, without you what am I going to do?’  This is mad, isn’t it?  This is unreasonable.  But I am helpless in my weakness.  I, cowardly, feebly, selfishly, give the weight of my sins to you . . . .Never was there a worse sinner, and never was God kinder to one.  Mother, it’s true.  You know how true it is.  You are the only explanation of God’s kindness to me.”  (From Mr. Blue by Myles Connolly)

“I trust you not to misunderstand Me”

It’s been awhile since I’ve posted anything from my old friend, Amy Carmichael.  I hope you find encouragement here:

Ps 37.31 None of his steps shall slide.

Ps 18.36 Thou hast enlarged my steps under me, that my ankles did not slip.

Luke 21.16-18  You shall be betrayed . . . and some of you shall they cause to be put to death . . . . But there shall not a hair of your head perish.

These words of our God are most gloriously trustful.  Our Lord was speaking to some who were to die by martyrdom and He said in effect: “I trust you not to misunderstand when your ankles do slip and every hair of your head does perish.  I trust you never to be offended in Me.”

There is a delightful “though” in Psalm 37.24 which goes to the core of the matter.  Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the Lord upholds him with His hand.  Kay translates it, He shall not be prostrated, for the Lord supports His hand; and Rotherham, with enchanting vigor: Though he fall, he shall not be hurled headlong, for the Lord is holding his hand.

What do falls matter if the Lord is holding us up?  He will keep us safe; we shall be more than conquerors through Him who loves us.