A young couple speaks about their love for their young child with cancer. A powerful 12 minutes and 48 seconds. This will increase your faith: Meet Joel.
Month: May 2013
“My weakness in mothering”
I have counselled a number of mothers whose children have disappointed them in some way or another. Most of them have the same first response as Lysa TerKeurst : “And you know what I’m tempted to do as a mom? Draw a straight line from my child’s wrong choice to my weakness in mothering.”
If you’d like to know more of her thinking process about this, go here. It’s worth the read.
Christians and depression
Bill, over at Unshakable Hope, has a very timely and interesting post: Why are So Many Christians Depressed? Most of the comments (and his responses) are very good. You can find my own among them. I will direct you over there today. I’m sure there are some of you, including myself, who deal with (or have dealt with) depression and struggled with “What does this mean about me and God? Am I failing him somehow?”, etc.
And, by the way, if you haven’t already, read Bill’s story while you’re over there. (Under “About Bill“.)
Know that you are all in my prayers. And keep him and his family in yours.
You cannot be too gentle, too kind . . .
“You cannot be too gentle, too kind. Shun even to appear harsh in your treatment of each other. Joy, radiant joy, streams from the face of him who gives and kindles joy in the heart of him who receives. All condemnation is from the devil. Never condemn each other. We condemn others only because we shun knowing ourselves. When we gaze at our own failings, we see such a swamp that nothing in another can equal it. That is why we turn away, and make much of the faults of others.” ~ St. Seraphim
Wrapped in silence
Words fail me tonight, O Lord,
But wrapped in silence,
My heart speaks its adoration with every beat
As my gaze meets yours
And I’m held captive within that single glance.
Jeanne Kun
Having a bad week?
Christ and Adam (and you and me)
“Christ & Adam at Chartres. This is a stone carving over the north porch of the cathedral of Our Lady at Chartres, so small and among so many other carvings one has to look carefully to see it. It is for me one of the most powerful religious images I know of. Creation as an act of love. Adam (and thus all of us) bearers of God’s image.” (Jim Forest)
A story about Berry
This was written by a friend of mine, Chris de Vinck. (see “The Power of the Powerless”) He’s a great storyteller and whatever he writes is worth reading.
What is Your Name?
What is your name, so that we may honor you when your word comes true? (Judges 13.17)
I heard a story about Berry. I do not know why she was called Berry, but this is what I heard about her. She was born in a trailer in South Dakota. Her father was a locksmith, and her mother worked in the post office.
After a terrible fire in the trailer, both the father and the mother perished. Berry sustained burns over eithgy percent of her body, was blinded for life, and become morose and unhappy.
Berry never married. She attended school up to the tenth grade, then she was taken north by her aunt, who had a flower business in New York State.
Berry spent many days in the florist shop, answering phones and dictating orders on a tape recorder that her aunt played back whenever she was able to catch up on business.
The children int he neighborhood teased Berry by calling her names such as “Alligator Lady,” or “Goofy Eyes.” At first these things hurt the young woman; then, one day, Berry just laughed and asked the children what their names were.
The local children soon became enchanted with this Miss Berry who laughed and knew the smell of every flower they brought her. One boy, who was particularly shy, fetched Miss Berry’s mail each day and read it to her.
Miss Berry learned braille, wrote letters to the newspaper about the pollution she smelled while sitting out back where the maple tree grew. And to the boy who brought the mail she began to read stories about pirates, airplanes, and secret spies who rescued people from terrible fates by hiding them in the mountains of Europe.
Miss Berry stayed with her aunt until the aunt died. She attended college, received her degree in law, and became a public defender for abused children.
When Miss Berry died, she had no family. A young man from the old neighborhood read int he papers that Miss Berry had died, so he went over and said that he would like to make a contribution.
Before she died, the only thing that Miss Berry didn’t tend to herself was a headstone, so the young man paid for the headstone. When he was asked what he would like to have engraved on the stone, he thought for some time, then wrote a few words on a piece of paper and handed it to the stonecutter.
The stonecutter read the words and smiled: “I also knew her. These words will suit her just fine: Miss Berry: She Loved All the Flowers and All the Children.”
When we human beings are confronted with something we do not understand, we become suspicious, just as the children were when they first met Miss Berry. We need to have answers. We need to know. And if we do not understand something, as the children didn’t at first understand Miss Berry, we become afraid, or we make jokes, or we push for answers.
During the time of Christ, people were puzzled about a man who was baptizing. They wanted to know if he was Jesus. John the Baptist confessed freely, “I am not the Christ.”
They asked him, “Then who are you? Are you Elijah?”
He said, “I am not.”
“Are you the Prophet?”
He answered, “No.”
Finally they said, “Who are you? Give us an answer to take back to those who sent us. What do you say about yourself?”
John replied in the words of Isaiah the prophet, “I am the voice of one calling int he desert, ‘Make straight the way of the Lord'” (John 1.20-23).
One of the most significant things we can do is answer to God, “What do you say about yourself?”
I think Miss Berry would simply laugh and say, “Well, the children call me Alligator Woman; I became a lawyer; I like flowers; and there was a boy who read my mail to me each day for eight years. I learned to read because of him.”
Who we are is connected to those we love and to those who have influenced us toward goodness. John the Baptist loved Jesus and was influenced by His words. John was never the same because of Jesus’ spiritual intervention.
The small boy who read to Miss Berry intervened in her spirit, and she was no longer the same person because of the child’s kindness.
We all have the potential to be the one who baptizes. We all have the potential to be moved to action. Today let us make straight the way of the Lord.
This is a grace
“Meeting the Lord [is important], but more importantly, let us be met by the Lord: this is a grace.” (Pope Francis)
May you perceive His meeting you today in this ordinary time of life.



